I’m a very busy working mother of three. My husband and I have no time together. We slump into bed exhausted and seem to have lost our libido. How do we get it back?   This is such a common problem. One thing busy couples tend to miss is spontaneity and passion. Some worry […]

  How can me and my boyfriend stop fighting over stupid things?   Great question. There are lots of reasons people fight over small stuff, but I’ve yet to meet a couple with strong communication skills who choose fighting over discussion. Some couples stick to the “stupid things” because they’re afraid that broaching the deeper […]

  My marriage broke up a year ago and I was devastated. My husband said he wasn’t in love with me any more and there was no-one else. But six months later he was in a relationship and I can’t help suspecting they were together before we split. I also can’t stop thinking how easy […]

  Do you think threesomes or more, can bring an extra something to a relationship or are they destructive in the long run? My partner asked me if I’d be into it and I am, but not if it’s going to damage our relationship.   Going outside the relationship has great potential for mind-blowing excitement […]

  Hi. I’m one of those women who read 50 Shades and loved it. I was excited and kind of ashamed at the same time, that it found it so sexy. I liked the idea of this man who knows everything, would sweep me off my feet and all I’d have to do is lie […]

  I’m a 53 year old man and I enjoy dressing in women’s clothes sometimes. I don’t want to be a woman or to wear women’s clothes in public. I just like the feel of silky undies and other delicates against my skin. I find it arousing and sexy for me. I’ve been married but […]