Can men have multiple orgasms?
Because ejaculation and orgasm usually happen at the same time, we think they’re the same thing, but they aren’t, and while most men experience one ejaculation, they can have lots of orgasms. It’s also worth noting that you can have dry or non-ejaculatory orgasms with or without an erection.
Some men experience dry orgasms by surprise and don’t know how to have another. But others choose to learn breathing techniques and ways to move their sexual energy around their body so they control when, and how many times that energy peeks.
Tantra offers skills and knowledge based on ancient wisdom and understanding of the body, spirit, mind and energy. I love Barbara Carrellas’ modern take in her book Urban Tantra.
For any work related to orgasm or ejaculatory control, what we’ve been told historically about distracting ourselves and thinking unsexy thoughts is completely unhelpful. It takes us out of the moment and away from our partners, and leaves orgasm/ejaculatory control up to chance. It takes time and patience, but it’s definitely possible for men to have multiple orgasms.