Do men have G-spots?
The male G-spot is actually his prostate gland, which is about the size of a walnut and is found about two inches inside the anal canal on the front wall (facing his tummy). The prostate gland helps control urine release (it’s right below the bladder) and also produces some seminal fluid.
There’s plenty of research showing the health benefits of prostate massage (sometimes called “milking”) and there are specialist clinics and expensive equipment to do the job. But it’s pretty easy to do yourself, and many men enjoy prostate massage immensely as part of sexual play. The prostate can be stimulated externally by massaging the perineum (or taint), the smooth area between the testicles and the anus. All men are different, so some will find this fantastic, but others, not so much. Experiment with pressure and touch and add lube for extra sexy slip. Some men find that firm pressure on the perineum with fingers, or light touch with a vibrator, can help with erections and/or ejaculation.
Internal stimulation of the prostate can lead to explosive orgasms for some men. But it’s not something that should ever be attempted without discussion, some reliable education and good communication in the moment. Porn is not your ally when it comes to learning anything about anal play. As with the female G-spot it’s best to get really warmed up before trying anything and the person being penetrated needs to be in complete control. I love Charlie Glickman’s The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure for reliable, sex positive tips.